Just like super hot women often aren't the best lovers. It all comes down to effort and the desire to please.

As a male in this community with a larger than average, but not huge cock, who has had a good level of success I can provide some input. The big cock craze is mostly driven by what people see in porn. Men are the primary consumers of porn, so in the hotwife lifestyle, married men like to watch their wife with large cocks. It makes them feel like their wife is a pornstar for him to watch. It makes perfect sense. But some women love taking huge cocks, maybe it’s the orgasmic pleasure or simply the idea of “I fucked a 11 inch cock today!!” But the real moral of the story here is, every woman is different and she has the right to choose who she wants to fuck and why.

All I can report is what my wife says. She has a job in the medical field in which she sees several “soft” cocks every day. She has also fucked about 11 guys since we’ve been married. So she has some insight. She says that if you look at the middle of a bell curve, 95% of penises are within an inch and a half of each other and makes no difference. Of course there are the 5% outliers that are extremely small and extremely large. Good luck finding one that is not a douche. Just have fun and be safe and fuck decent guys that are out to please her. I’m above average and she is used to that daily so I’m sure what a woman is accustomed to maybe has some bearing. She has fucked one guy bigger than me but her favorite experience so far is with a guy smaller than I am but she really liked him. So for what it’s worth. It is clearly male driven. And some women have that slutty side where they say they want a big dick maybe to turn their husband on. The bigger issue we’ve had is guys getting or keeping an erection. Why don’t men talk about that? 😂 Idk. Have fun out there!