I recently said i think it would make my experience alot better and make me feel more comfortable if i did not need to contact him throughout a night out as i think it could be a distraction for me. For instance say i meet a guy we begin to flirt and i feel it could end up going somewhere. If i have to message and update my husband i think it could be less enjoyable for me knowing that i have to check in and not fully be in the moment. I said i would rather go out on a night out with friends and if i meet someone id rather do my thing and if i fuck him then id still be happy to then tell my husband all the details when i come home.