Posted a few days ago about my wife getting back into things after a horrible experience a year ago (a guy took the condom off and assaulted her). An old classmate had sprung back up on social media and he reached out to her, and my wife felt like she was ready to jump back on the saddle. They were supposed to meet Saturday, but the guy made some mistakes that set off alarms.

First of all, the guy was boring as hell. Seriously, thirds, if you get a sexy little treat sending you nudes and talking about how she wants to fuck you, reciprocate and make her feel sexy. This dude never detailed what he wanted to do to her, barely exuded any passion, barely hyped up my wife, and didn't respond to her nudes with a dick pic to make my wife's mouth water.

Beyond that, my wife and I had an unrelated argument that needed a few days to resolve. She didn't want to continue talking with me about her classmate since we obviously had a much more pressing issue to handle. She told the guy about it because the argument needed to be resolved first before anything happened, meaning it may have affected the Saturday day they set.

Instead of understanding and just patiently waiting, he asked if they could still fuck without my approval. That pissed my wife off so much because them fucking (and recording it) would be our thing. Skirting my approval to fuck is not and will never be an option to her, so that's pretty much that. Him showing no respect for the relationship means he is capable of not respecting our terms and boundaries for sex.

We already had one shit bull ruin this lifestyle for us for a while, and we are going to move on from another guy that shows these red flags.

Stay safe and vigilant y'all.