We’ve been in the lifestyle a while. We’re in our late 30’s.Never posted on here but figured it would be a good place to share since we only have a select number of friends who know about our lifestyle but don’t go into details.

It all started since the wife and I were talking after getting back from a night on the town and we were talking about her getting blatantly checked out in front of me. This conversation eventually led to her admitting that she loves the attention from other men especially now that she’s older and is trying to be fully honesty with herself. It turned into a bit of an argument and I straight up asked her if she thought about fucking other guys and she said yes. But went on to explain that she only slept with 4 guys before me and 3 were boyfriends and one was a guy she had know through most of college. And that she never allowed herself to really indulge in sex and have a slutty wild phase like the majority of her friends. That it was strictly physical not emotional and that she’d never cheat.

Our relationship got quite stressful during that time. But I noticed that picturing her with other men felt hurtful and turned my stomach but then I realized under that there was an exhilarating feeling and it started turning me on. This thought that my wife was this desired woman who men wanted to bend her over. Almost like she was in a porn.

I admitted this and we used it as bedroom fantasy. She then showed me hotwifing sites online and after much deliberation we decided to try.

She started slowly. Being more flirty and dressing provocatively.

It started with just using apps and hiding her face in case we saw someone we knew.

She mostly just chatted/sexted at her. Then eventually met up on some dates. Even just her going on a date was so nerve wracking at first. Her making out had me reeling for a day. Then had me on the floor when she gave a guy a blowjob and got fingered. Finally the day came when after 3 dates she decided to fuck someone. I had them get a hotel for safety reasons. Waited in the car and was shaking and sweating.

First time had me regretting it but then I realized she still loved me as much and I started accepting it. The second/third guy I even enjoyed it.

She said the sex was good but disconnected and just pounding. That she didn’t feel intense lust and wanted a steady bull. That she was sick of dates and getting to know new guys.

Around this time we ended up leaving Chicago area and moving to Scottsdale AZ. She got her tits done here too,especially since there were way more women who’d had work done and she wouldn’t stick out like crazy as she would back home. The attention still profoundly went up. A pair of big tits have so much influence haha.

During the holidays she joined a fancy yoga studio to get in shape. There she ended up seeing and eventually chatting with this guy she thought was “hot as fuck”. Definitely more rugged and wild than usual guys she slept with.

This guy had a lot of tats, long hair, beard, etc. was early 30’s.

She kept her personal life quiet and didn’t chat much with the other women so she could get away with being assumed single.

Anyways she and this guy were definitely flirting. He got her number and they set up a date. She met him for margaritas at more of a divey/hip type of bar. She waited until in person to tell her of her arrangement, which he ended up being fine with since he ended an engagement last fall.

She normally waits but ended up back at his place after a few rounds of drinks. She said this guy stuffed her so fucking good. That he had such drive and passion, and his cock felt really intense almost painful at first. But after he loosened her up a bit she said she was just sliding up and down that thing for hours. That he took it to another almost primal level. That this is what she’s been fantasizing about experiencing.

She’s been with him a couple times a week since the holidays. Sometime they’ll do hot yoga and go back soaked in sweat and just fuck on his floor. She said it feels like a challenge to satiate him.

She loves fucking out in his yard in the sun or edge of his pool since it’s pretty secluded. She also met a couple he’s friends with who swing that are wanting to have a sex party. The wife is bi and my wife has always been curious about playing with another woman.

Her finding a good bull has been key. Casual is fun but this has allowed to space for her to fully relax and explore.

Just wanted to share on here and answer any questions about this or the lifestyle in general. I feel like