Basically after a few months of talking, role-playing, adding new toys to the bedroom, my wife seems very interested on give it a try and start planning a MFM soon, at least now we are not planning to go full into the lifestyle but I have this big fantasy on seeing her with another guy and participate, one of her biggest concerns it's getting too personal with the 3rd and develop some feelings for him, based on that I had the idea of getting her an erotic massage as a first experience, I found this guy who offers it with optional upgrades to the massage like happy ending etc, I showed his pictures to my wife and she liked him and got turned on by the idea, I believe this could ease my wife's concerns but I'm not sure if there is any other things to consider about this, can you guys give me your opinions and/or experience?