Reddit world, we need your help. Hubby came to me (wife here) about 6 months ago about exploring fantasies. We've been happily married 15 years. He expressed interest in hotwife/cuckcolding/mfm, which I had only ever dreamed about but never talked about with him. Fast forward a few months after doing some research and a lot of talking (including during sex, which is the hottest sex we've ever had together), and he found me a few guys to talk/sext with the potential to play with (all ghosted when it came time to meet). One of my fantasies is a dom/sub play partner. I've been talking/sexting for a while with a guy that can meet both my fantasies and hubby's too. All of a sudden, hubby isn't sure he wants to go through with it. He isn't sure if it's jealousy or envy or just not what he wants anymore now that it's getting real. I'm the happiest I've been in years exploring this new side of myself, but want hubby to be as well. He wants to hear from others about the pros and cons and the best steps forward. Thanks in advance for the help and support!