To summarize the point where we are on this subject of shared sex, I can say that last night we had a good sex where we had a dirty conversation where she asked me if I would like to see her with someone else to which I fervently answered yes! The sex was great, today when she went to buy the vegetables at the fruver she saw this guy who I had already seen before and who being honest is physically nice and can be very attractive for the women, and so it was for my wife, she told me verbatim “I already found the right person for our threesome” - all excited - “the boy with the fruver, he is very handsome and I had never seen him before” I smiled and told him that it couldn’t be since he works near our house, and he is within our social circle or at least he is our neighbor.

I had already stipulated the rules or limits of the meetings, but not when choosing a third party (I have been clear to it, but I have not told her) I thought it was obvious, but reflecting and reading a lot of content here, I realize that our culture is more closed than most of you, where you fantasize and tell experiences of sharing your wife with your best friend, boss, neighbor, etc., for me it is something that is definitely not in my plans.

After telling my wife about this, she understood my reasons and there was no problem in assuming it.

Now, I feel excited that she has already taken the initiative in this, but at the same time I felt a “fuck! She chose someone who would allow him to fuck her” and I must admit that it doesn’t feel good, it may be something normal when starting this and it may not represent negative emotions later, but yes, I just wanted to share with you this first failed approach with a small roller coaster of emotions.

How was your experience?