[TLDR: Best app for Hotwife texting, sexting and video sexing, with no real life hookup expectation?]

Little background: My wife and I have fantasized about the Hotwife lifestyle for a couple of years now. She began to dress really slutty and loves the attention she receives. She says she recently discovered that she’s a bit of an exhibitionist.

When we talk through a Hotwife or MFM encounter during sex, she becomes wetter than usual and ravenously orgasmic.

She’s a very very attractive Latina. She just turned 40 and had guys in their early 20’s all over her at the vanilla club. They all thought she was in her 20’s. Women too are all over her even though she’s not remotely bi. As a husband with a hotwife fantasy, I love the attention she receives.

The thing is, she’s a Demisexual meaning connection is 100% necessary for her to want to open up to another man sexually. Which is why I’ve been her only partner. Most guys can’t hold back long enough to build that connection. They’re polite, perfect gentlemen until if chatting, after about 3 days all that goes out the window and they just want to get into her skirt.

She’s more sexual than ever. She dresses slutty during the day to entice me to have day sex with her. At night she puts on fresh makeup and a different slutty outfit and jumps on me again. This is pretty much our daily routine

She’s not ready to go all in and meet another man for a sexual encounter.

Which is 100% ok. We have a good thing going. She has to move at her own pace. But we both LOVE the hotwife fantasy and want to make it more real, without actually doing it.

Recently we agreed to escalate our fantasy to include her texting, sexting and eventually have live video sex.

We signed up to Feeld and posted pictures of her. It took a day for her to have almost 400 likes. A bit overwhelming. We have a paid account, so we sifted through her potential matches looking for men who were aesthetically pleasing, experienced in the LS and respectful.

She chose them.

And the conversation go the same every time.

Pleasant introduction, a little teasing, the exchanging of some extra photos and then BAM, the guy wants to meet. Hardly enough time goes by for them to have a connection..

We always explain that she’s new to this, that she’s only ever had one partner (me) and that drives them over the edge and they just want to get into her.

The build up stops. No more flirting. No sexting. To build up to eventual FaceTime video sex. Literally three days max and they just want to meet even when we make our intentions clear.

So our question is:

Is there an app where she could find a man who is willing to chat, sext and eventually lead up to live video sex… but never real life encounter?

Are we going about this all wrong?

If I was allowed to post a picture of her here you’d understand why guys can’t last long enough to build a connection..