What percentage of women that you have been with insisted that you wear a condom? Did your wife? I think I know the most likely answers if everybody is being honest so is this generally the husband's rule? Are there couples that think it's the preference of both when the wife let you in it raw the first time you were in bed? Do you think you were special? 🤦

If it is how does that make you feel? For me it's the ultimate turn off that my wife doesn't have boundaries she will stand up for. I couldn't send her out alone to fuck some guy and know she wouldn't come back full of his diseased semen. Don't get me wrong, it could be hotter but if it was done uncontrolled I don't know what I would say. With the condom though I don't know that she's that different than most.

I've had a couple, usually younger women worried about pregnancy ruining college insisting I use a condom but I talked most of them out of it a couple times. With the ones who didn't mention it I was more likely to be the one to want a condom. With the ones who seemed to be trying talk me out of it that was usually a no go.

Is it asking too much to expect a woman to exercise good judgment being alone with a strange man? Or even if she will are you a little turned off thinking she needs you being the voice of reason? This is one reason I'm glad we didn't get deep into it but I want to hear your thoughts and opinions. It's not really about condoms but condoms are a great example.

For women I'm not trying to insult you but you and your husband know what happened when you met. I respect women more for just being able to be trusted to follow rules but maybe I expect too much from women to set the boundaries on their own. I wouldn't want you saying no to something just because you know I want you to. I would rather you set reasonable boundaries and standards. My wife is the worst about this. I'm only saying I may have been harder on her than she deserved because she isn't that different.