After a couple years talking about taking the leap, my wife finally did about a year ago. We had a 'semi-regular' guy who lives out of town and we saw a handful of times per year. She had great 1 on 1 experiences and we also had a few MFM 3somes. She loved it, I loved it, we all loved it! We had the most incredible sex during that year, often, passionate, perfect. Now it seems like we have gone dry. We have not seen him for about 6 months. It seems like our sex life has gone backwards. We are having sex like once a week maybe, when it used to be 5. It seems like it's just vanilla now. Anyone else experience this? Have any advice to get over this hump?