So I think I’ve probably had the hotwife kink for years, since one time when at university my now wife and some friends (both sexes) got their kit off after a night out, just general flashing, and it turned me on that all the guys got to see her tits. I think I must have mentioned the fantasy years ago and at that time, she considered it an “you want this so you get to fuck another woman, right?” And I left it there. Masturbating furiously to the idea in private of course.

Fast forward quite a few years to now, and working on introducing the idea slowly. I don’t even know if I necessarily want her to have sex with somebody else as things stand, but happy and keen to explore the fantasy together and see what we both desire.

I posted a story recently about her Christmas night out in a sexy outfit, which probably sparked me back to life on the fantasy.

I’ve had a few measured successes lately.

Before Christmas I made a passing comment during sex - we were talking fantasies - about seeing her with another guys cock. She said “really” and not much else, but wasn’t verbally against it.

We used a vibrator during foreplay, when she was dripping wet I put my cock in and, after she came I asked her to suck it and lick it clean like it’s another cock. She did, turning her head to look at me before moving in front of the mirror to show me.

Then the other night, during sex we were talking dirty. I told her about my fantasy that she’d gone out in a sexy outfit, whilst I’m home, and that she comes home dripping wet - when she gets home I eat and fuck her as she tells me all about the number of guys hitting on her. Telling her she’s sexy and all the guys admiring her. We followed that story and she bounced back and forward as I ended up being told about a guy dancing with her from behind, a big bulge against her, and him sliding his hands down her pants and fingering her pussy. I came hard not long after! She really enjoyed this fantasy too - after we both rolled off giggling and saying that was naughty - and hot.

So, going to keep exploring that theme (not every time we have sex as don’t want it to be all we think about). Any suggestions how we can move forward from here, taking it slowly but developing the fantasy as part of our sex life? She’s not keen on realistic dildos so that’s probably off the table for now.

She’s not the most forthcoming with initiating sex talk, so will mostly need to be driven by me but I would like to try and draw out whatever fantasies she has!