So my wife and I are currently separated at the moment due to an incident with the LS. I let her play solo and she broke a few of my big rules and showed genuine remorse and we talked and got through it. Less than a week after that she asked if she could go to his house after work cause she had to drop off a co worker and he lives like 5 minutes from there. I said yes cause she promised to come home that night (one of my big rules was no overnights. And that she also would be home at a reasonable time to take care of my needs and because I had work early the next morning . She gets there and I don’t hear from her for an hour and when I texted the guy he didn’t answer either. He also promised me he wouldn’t let her stay too late and he did anyways. Both claim to have lost track of time and that’s what they told me the first time a rule got broken during the first solo play. I got a snap from her after an hour and she told me her phone had died and that she had it on a charger while she showered before they did any play. They played and she stayed in contact. She tells me that she’ll be heading home in a minuet. 45 minutes go by with constant contact go by and she only left when I asked her how much longer it would be until she actually was leaving. When she got home I made us go to bed because I knew she was tired but my feelings were greatly hurt again. She woke up to me crying a bit because I felt betrayed. We argued for a bit after that. I asked if we could have sex for make up sex and she said yes. I opened a contraceptive. She said I don’t think we have time. I said we did and we kinda had to cause I already opened it. That’s on of the ways we gauge just how into we are so I thought it was like a normal time. She said we could do it so we did. Now she feels i assaulted her and we’re split up and she says she can’t trust me with her body or heart anymore and this is all crushing me. What do I do I want her back so bad but she won’t talk to me unless it’s about our daughter. Any other couple go through something like this?