Just to paint the necessary background for context: Mid-30’s American couple here living in the southern USA. DINK couple, met and married years ago through work.

We started in this lifestyle by swinging with one other couple, then we moved from there to here and decided (very long story) that my wife being sexually active outside the marriage is fun for both of us, me being sexually active outside the marriage isn’t fun for her so now we stick strictly to hotwifing.

Worth noting…. I wouldn’t say she does other guys necessarily all that often. A new per year, sometimes two… sometimes none. She doesn’t usually tend to keep the same guy around too long because no one wants feelings being caught.

Feelings being caught… that leads me to this post:

My wife travels a lot for work. She’ll get put on corporate consulting projects that last several months at a time. Sometimes over a year. As one might guess… these are opportunities where sometimes she/we will choose to play. A spice of fun to perk up the long stressful days spent alone in a hotel room.

So a few months ago wife gets sent to a long-term project in the north East Coast. Two weeks home, one week there, basically repeat. There is a little deviation but not much.

Wife is living on the road in a hotel. Across the street is a brewery, she goes one night after work to grab a beer and a bite and unwind. There is a weekly trivia game going on, two buddies at the bar are playing, sitting by my wife who’s alone.

She’s chatting with them, helping them on questions, obviously getting deeper into conversations with them based on trivia. She’s teasing them about their missed questions, you know. One of the guys is single and about 25. Wife is 34. She found him witty and charming…and cute… and tall. My wife is tall, so she either enjoys men who are taller than her, or a lot shorter than her. (That’s a different story.)

Trivia ends. The one buddy leaves, but the guy my wife has been talking too stays because he knows she’s interested.

About an hour or so goes by of flirting, wife says she needs to go back to the hotel. She’s already communicated that she’s there for work. He says something half-nervous to see if he can work his way with her.

She very matter of factly says she’s married, so she’s not going to give him her number. However, she would like to have some stress-relieving sex with him so go down to the drug store… pick up condoms… come meet her back at the lobby.

He does. She says it’s a lot of fun. They fuck twice, once he was just too excited but “rebounded quickly”. Before he leaves for the night she gives him her Snapchat handle that she uses for these matters and lets him know she would certainly be interested in some playtime when she’s in town.

Ok… so all of that is kind of hot, right? The problem is… she comes home for a couple weeks, goes back East… and after a couple of days sends him a Snap that lets him know she wants him to come over. He does. They play.

They’re laying naked together and suddenly jealousy starts. Why didn’t she text him at all while she was home? Why did she wait so many days when she got back to let him know she was back in town.

Ends kind of awkwardly. She tells me about it… then when she’s home again, she shows me the Snaps he’s been sending. “Sorry I got so territorial I just really like you”. “Sorry I got so jealous I just really like spending time with you.” “I think I’m falling for you.” Etc.

Then… he unsolicited dick pics and requests for titty pics.

Wife says she’s had fun but she’s married and this needs to stop. She blocks him on Snap and doubtfully will see him again. (Her project isn’t over, but she’s switching hotels and he never got her full name or company name.”

Anyway… we’ve played with 20’s and we’ve played with as high up as late-50’s. Older is probably just better. The 20’s have a very hard time separating lust and love.