Thanks for all the suggestions yesterday. I read them all and appreciated them. There were so many, it seemed like it made more sense to make another post than to try to respond to each one.

I talked to my wife. She was extremely understanding. First and foremost she was ready to immediately never play separately again should I say the words.

I told her we aren’t there. Especially because I know how exciting and fun it is to be with someone new, and if the shoe was on the other foot, I’d be sad to cut it off after one time.

So now we’re in solution mode. She’s 100% on board for pics and videos. I halfheartedly and/or slightly tongue-in-cheek asked for them the first time. If I’m being honest, part of the turn on for all of this is seeing my wife really embrace her sexuality and, for lack of a better term, “sluttiness.” I wanted pics and videos because that’s just further her embracing it. I didn’t think about how it would include me more in the experience.

I think knowing she’s making a conscious choice to capture images for me would make me feel more included. The logistics of it were really her hold up. Her only phone is her work phone and she’s understandably uncomfortable with that. We’ll solve this before the next visit.

We also discussed the idea of transitioning from hotwife more to MFM and she thought that could be interesting but not sure how he’d feel. She agrees she’d like me there. Some folks suggested me being there and filming, but I know I wouldn’t be able to not join in, so we’d need to discuss MFM ahead of time to make sure he was comfortable.

She called him to talk it through. He’s a really great guy and his immediate response was to shut it all down if I was bothered at all. She told him we weren’t there. She mentioned pictures and he was 110% on board and excited, strategizing how they’d take them and send them. Then she mentioned MFM and he was 200% on board. Like, now that they’ve done a 1:1 he might be even more excited for MFM.

After he shared his excitement for MFM, she came back to me. We started to talk though the different activities and positions because she had questions on how it’d work. Talking it through made her super horny, so she’s really excited for it now.

So that’s where we are.