I wish someone could talk some sense into my wife. I think she’s developed feelings for him. We are 33 (f) and 38 (m) and this guy is 26. We have a child together.

She obviously is taking this too far, as she has told me she’s wet or in the mood, but he won’t message her back.

He deleted her off Facebook, so she deleted him off snap, and has been disconnected intimately from me. I don’t know how to pull her back in. We have discussed a threesome together, but he’s afraid of me and wants her to himself.

She says she wants to be with both of us and somehow make that work. I’m trying to teach her how the lifestyle is supposed to work and that communication, reassurance, love, and honesty are all supposed to play a part in this.

She deleted her “married” status on Facebook and is just acting like she’s a roommate. It’s mentally messing me up as her words say everything is fine with us, but her actions are showing me she’s checked out.

She wants to “make him jealous”

Has anyone else ever gone through this?