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Hubby has been talking about it for YEARS and last year I finally got on board. It took a long time and connection to the other person has always been important to me. I don’t feel comfortable fucking a stranger I guess. The two guys I got to know and intended to sleep with turned out to be duds and wasted time. Our first experience as a couple was actually a mutual friend of ours on a complete fluke. It was solo play and hubby didn’t get to reclaim until the day after. Since then I’ve slept with the friend again, but again it was solo.
I’ve seen a lot on here about husbands finding and chatting with the bulls online to vet for wife. Or not allowing solo play for a long while until everyone is comfortable. I’m curious how you’ve all experienced that. How was it for YOU meeting a bull your husband vetted? Especially the first time… do you pick with him or does he pick for you kind of thing?
Though i enjoy the solo play with our friend I would really like to perform in front of hubby and that’s not an option with this friend.
Talk to them for a little bit (10-20mins) to communicate wants/needs/boundaries. Then verify video call. Move to a group chat with my husband to make plans and make sure he doesn’t sniff anything I didn’t spot. Then meet up for sex.
Hotwife here. I’m the one who finds our thirds and do the vetting. Out of the 4 thirds that we’ve had, 3 were from Reddit, 1 was a friend. We lucked out for our first experience and we’ve became good friends but distance is what keeps us from playing more often (we’re 6 hours away via driving). With the latest third that turned into regular FWB, I met him here on Reddit when he posted that he was going to be in my city for an interview a few months ago, he ended up getting the position and moving close by so we’ve recently hooked up again a few times solo. The first time for each of my encounters, my husband was there, participated or watched at some point. The subsequent times, I’ve done solo and gone home to my husband/rejoined my husband for more fun.
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