Hello all, wife and I have been in the alternative LS for a while now. We have had threesomes before, all men, I’ve been involved all times, save for one.

She has played by herself while I was at work with another guy we had seen a few times. So the trust was already there and it was still hot.

HOWEVER, there always was a fantasy and aspect I have liked for a long time.

I always fantasized and thought it would be hot for her to hookup/meet a guy who didn’t know she/we were in the LS. Like meeting a guy at the bar and taking him home or his place or giving him a BJ in the car etc etc. Then she just tells me about it afterwards. Point being, the guy doesn’t know I am okay with this. Is that wrong? 👀

So she has started talking to a guy she works with. Started innocent, quick conversations,etc etc. More recently they have actually started messaging each other. This guy knows she’s married but little of the conversations have involved talking about that. They actually talked/message at great length well past midnight.

My wife asks me “I wonder if he’s married?”, but more as if she doesn’t know what his intentions might be or if he is only messaging as a friend.

My theory is, a married guy wouldn’t have the freedom or time to be messaging like that and for that long into the night. Maybe he’s in an open marriage? But a single guy knowing you’re married and not really brining up the husband or question why she is messaging so late might mean he’s at least intrigued.

I get the impression he’s intrigued, and might be thinking in his head “I wonder how far I can take this?”.

Admittedly the conversations haven’t yet moved to overt flirting and we aren’t sure exactly if we should or how to nudge it in that direction…

Anyways, we feeel it would be very hot to have them both “cross that line”, him giving into his “taboo” desires and her having a fantastic time.

Idk, we are excited and nervous at the same time.