My wife and I usually before going to bed have some sexy and hot conversations to ignite some intense sex. One conversation that has always fascinated me and to this day drives me wild is the very first time hearing her during sex.

So my wife and I had an interesting way of first meeting. I first met her when my old roommate brought her over to the apartment. She was in his class, so the two had met there and started talking. It progressed into a little more than talking and that's how she came to be at our apartment. My roommate introduced me to her and at the time I had just expected her to be just another one of his random hookups. So naturally, I didn't think too much about it other than noticing she was attractive. She ended up sticking around for some months and come over a few times during the week.

We never really engaged into nothing more than casual talks when she was over. Her and my roommate would eventually disappear into his room. Being how small our apartment was I could hear them talking, her giggling which would eventually turn into hearing her moaning, hearing his headboard banging against the wall, or an occasional scream from her. There was even one night where I heard him slapping her ass hard and her asking for more. She was clearly enjoying and loving every second of it and it was so hot to hear.

After they finished, there sometimes would be the awkward moments when she came out his room looking like she had forgotten they weren't alone. Her hair clearly a mess and a few times I had noticed red around her neck where I could only imagine what the cause was. She would smile and immediately bee line to the door, looking embarrassed with a quick bye.

It would never occur to me in those moments that the girl I would hear all those nights would be my wife.

I love looking back now at those nights, imagining her and my roommate again. Yet this time with the opportunity to hear from her of what happened behind that bedroom door. Realizing that those nights would lead towards a future in the lifestyle for both of us.

Curious if others have shared early experiences like this that have opened the door or gave the realization that the lifestyle could be something for the both of you.