For a little bit of background, my husband and I have been interested in Hotwifing for the entirety of our 8 year relationship. In the past we have tried to make something happen but every guy has flaked, and once the pandemic hit, we took a long break from even attempting to find someone. So I’ve played with lots of guys online but never met up with anyone. We (my husband and I) have always discussed doing a MFM as our first foray into the real world of this lifestyle, but it has been exceedingly difficult to make that happen.
Having said all of that recently my husband and I have been dirty talking about me fucking someone else almost nonstop, until one day he stopped and stared at me for a bit until I asked what was on his mind. He smiled and said “I’m ready. I want you to find a guy and go on a date, and fuck him.” I laughed but he was dead serious. We had the conversation and we communicated about every aspect until we both felt extremely comfortable with every detail. The plan was to hit the dating apps hard - bumble, hinge, tinder, and feeld, and find a guy with whom I felt comfortable, attracted to, was aware of our dynamic and respectful of it, and willing to meet up causally fairly soon.
Before launching into the next part, I want to say that overall, my husband and I believe that this ended up being the most ideal first time we could dream up. We are really pleased with how it went overall, but also have communicated about some things that we will do differently next time. I re-downloaded the apps on Monday and launched my profiles and started swiping. Tinder I actually didn’t get a single match! It was quite disheartening haha. On the other hand, Feeld I got an overwhelming amount, but almost none that I felt a mutual attraction with. Hinge was by far the best of the bunch. Bumble I did get more matches but almost none who responded to initial messages which I found odd.
I met the guy I ended up hooking up with on Hinge on Wednesday. His profile stood out to me because he seemed intelligent, attractive, and just overall had a great vibe. His pics were creative and interesting and his initial message was the perfect mixture of flirty, complimentary, and interesting enough to stand out. We started chatting and genuinely hit it off. He’s only 23 and not looking for anything serious, and was totally respectful of my relationship with my husband and our dynamic. He was open to the type of arrangement I’m looking for, which would be a FWB type thing where we could potentially have semi-regular hookups. I chatted with my husband and got the thumbs up to set up a date for Saturday!!
To be honest at first I wasn’t even that excited - I figured he would just end up flaking out at the last minute. But as the week progressed and we continued to chat and flirt I became more convinced that this was gonna happen. My husband and I planned my outfit and talked every day about the upcoming date. Finally date time hit and my husband helped me get dressed and I gave him a long kiss goodbye and promised to update him as much as possible.
I met him at a local dim sum restaurant that we both love. He was just as cute in real life as his pics which was a relief! I also noticed he smelled great which is always nice. The date itself was lovely, he was very easy to talk to, funny, interesting, and a good conversationalist. He asked me questions and seemed to listen to my answers intently, it was a great vibe. He lived right down the street from the restaurant, so once we paid, I headed back with him (which is something we discussed beforehand - I basically said that I planned to hookup with him unless I said otherwise after dinner).
Once we got to his place, he offered me something to drink and we put on a movie. Admittedly I was quite nervous - this was honestly my first “date” since I met my husband 8 years ago! I hadn’t thought about how I was going to initiate honestly, and I started to feel a little self-conscious for some reason. He was very lovely and sat close but not too close, asked if I was comfortable with having his arm around me, and gently played with my hair and stoked my leg. It was honestly very nice, and more tender/romantic than I was expecting, I suppose! After a while he asked if he could kiss me and I said yes enthusiastically. He smelled really good, and his lips were soft, and I definitely began feeling comfortable the longer we just made out. His ability to take it slow encouraged me even more somehow.
Eventually I straddled him on the couch. I had worn a skirt with a bodysuit and mock-garter stockings, so I was still fully clothed but he had full access to my ass and upper thighs. We kissed and he squeezed my ass and hips and had me grinding against his bulge while we made out like horny lil teenagers in someone’s basement lol. I pulled back for a minute to take off the sheer mesh shirt I wore over the bodysuit, then pulled the straps down so I could pull my tits out. He seemed super into them, kissing and sucking and licking like he was starving and my tits were a four course meal :) I love having my nipples sucked so it was perfect! I forgot how fun and exciting first times are and it definitely made me super ready for more. Eventually he whispered that he needed to see my ass.
While we had been chatting leading up to our date, he had mentioned how much he loves having a huge ass smothering him - well, I’m definitely your girl lol. So I knew he was really interested in my ass (one reason I wore the outfit I chose), and I was more than happy to oblige. I asked if he’d take a pic for my husband and he happily agreed, grabbed my phone and snapped a pic of his hand on my huge ass, my skirt flipped up. I sent the pic quickly and then my date led me to his bedroom :)
He took his shirt off and I took my bodysuit and skirt off but left the stockings on. Once we got on his bed, I asked to clarify how he wanted me to sit on his face - we had chatted a bit about it but I wanted to make 100% sure. I’m a big girl and I’m not trying to kill someone with my ass lol. He assured me that he wanted to suffocate :) and I was more than happy to oblige! One of the hottest moments for me was taking off his pants and seeing this huge wet spot on his underwear of precum! That got me 🥴
I sat on his face for a bit and his dick got so crazy hard. For a while I just gently stroked it over his boxer briefs but eventually I did take them off and start jerking him slowly while I rode his tongue.
I realized I really wanted a video of this (this was also something we had discussed prior and he was ok with!) so I climbed off and asked if we could record a bit. He was very happy to oblige and asked if I could also take a video for his phone from my POV so we traded phones and he set mine up on his bedside table and I held his up so you could see my face, tits, belly, and his abdomen/dick. We settled back into my ass on his face and me playing with his dick. At one point he moved so he could talk and was like “spread your ass”, which I did without question and he started tongue fucking my asshole, gripping my hips and holding me still. It was sooo hot honestly. I kept playing with his dick and we took periodic breaks for me to focus on sucking him, my ass still in his face. I could tell when he was getting close to cumming because his balls tightened and his grip on my hips got tighter and tighter. I kept stroking him and said “I wanna watch you cum while you lick my ass,” and it wasn’t long before his dick was shooting ropes of cum across his belly. Feeling him moan into my ass was almost as hot as his tongue in my hole 😵‍💫🫣
The story is getting a little too long but after he came we cleaned up and got dressed. It was pretty late and I had a long-ish drive home so I decided to head out, he walked me to my car which was lovely.
I texted my husband that I was coming home so he would be ready for me… the story of me getting home and what happened after will have to wait for another day 😉