So my(31M) partner(31F) is going on a girls trip after new years. We've been in a ENM-relationship for about a year and a half now and so far has had one experience. We still both find it incredibly sexy and a turn on but she hasn't felt in the right mood when going out since then so nothing more has happened.

Now she's planned a girls, they all know about our situation, trip to a ski resort for three nights and to say that my imagination has started to run wild is an understatement. She also bought this sheer, drop dead, gorgeous dress to wear on the afterski as well which looked absolutely amazing on her. And so I hope this will get her in the right headspace to let loose while she's away. She's made it clear she doesn't want to like, "decide" to see someone but instead wants the freedom of acting in the moment if and when one presents itself. So it's very much a passion driven thing for her, hence the lack of experiences because she simply isn't into the idea of "looking" for someone and plan a date.

I was thinking I would maybe send a small "Hotwife care package" with her when she leaves. Just her Hotwife anklet and condoms at least. I would love some more tips or ideas on things I could do to help spice up her trip if anyone has anything.