Hi everyone! My wife and I are loving the hotwifing lifestyle, and have enjoyed a number of successful joint and solo play experiences over the better part of a year.

However, we’re currently trying to find a balance where I can be involved jn solo play encounters more.

We both love the idea of her being more fully present in the moment during those solo adventures. And it works! She can really let go and I LOVE that for her, but sometimes she forgets to send updates, texts, or media due to getting caught up in the experience.

I get it, sometimes setting something up for a great pic or vid can interrupt the flow. I’m also a decent photographer and videographer so I think she might feel added pressure to get something great looking.

So…

We're looking for practical suggestions on how to keep the connection and tease alive between us during her solo sessions, in a way that also doesn't detract from her enjoyment.

Any tips or experiences you could share for this situation?