This is just something else I'm wondering about.

I hear a lot of guys say they cum really fast when they get sloppy seconds from their wife. Whenever I can go twice I usually do from my own, so with it being the first nut, I could see how guys could cum fast. But I don't want to if it's another guys. I want to fuck his cum out of her until she can't take it anymore. This fantasy has only developed since my wife planted the seed for the hotwifing fantasy.

When we dirty talk I fuck her for a lot longer. I think because I want to get everything perfect in my head before I cum, but if we were just fucking and she said just the right thing I would probably blow immediately. Is it likely that I would be able to give her a long hard hate fucking for being a slut like I want to? Do any guys have this response instead of cum in 3 strokes?

My other questions are about etiquette you could say, and maybe ideas from porn.

First, since 6 months ago I would have been horrified to have another guys cum touching me, is it hard to find straight thirds who don't mind? If we did a threesome, and I was going to cum early, I don't think I should pull out of my wife but it seems rude not to if the other guy is going next.

Last, in porn something I have noticed with threesomes and gangbangs, when you do have a guy creampie the girl, and other guys fuck her after they usually pull out themselves or do it really shallow and pull out halfway through. Like guys don't want it mixing. Maybe post nut clarity hits right before ejaculating? But your dick is already covered in another dude's cum.

I don't think I would have this problem with my wife. If I just saw her inseminated by another man it seems like the most important part of reclaiming her.