This will be a little long. Felt like sharing our experience this weekend. I enjoy reading other’s stories so it’s fair that I share ours.

My wife and I (both 44, married 20 years) just started this lifestyle back in September so we’re still learning and getting comfortable with these new experiences. The guy that we had our first experience with came to see us this weekend. He lives about 4 hours away. My wife had her first solo date with him Friday night. It went well but I was not as excited about it as I thought I would be. I wasn’t upset or disappointed by it. I just wasn’t that excited by sitting at home getting a couple pictures of their activities. I know some guys are really into that. I did very much enjoy reconnecting with her when she got home. It made me clingy and need to be close to her for a while. My wife had a really good time and enjoyed it so I’m cool with it. It probably won’t be something that I let happen very often, and it will probably only be with this guy for now. He’s awesome, treats my wife amazingly well. Very respectful and polite, VERY respectful of our relationship and asked her several times during their date how I was doing and if I was still okay. He sets the bar high for what a 3rd should be. We got lucky when we found him.

Then Saturday afternoon we met him for an early dinner and went to his hotel room for a nap. Everyone was tired from being up late the night before. We took a nap with my wife in between us. That was pretty cool. I didn’t sleep a lot. Just dozed in and out. After we got up we went to a local resort that we have access to and hung out in the hot tub for a while. After the hot tub we went back to his room where my wife got out some warming oil and gave us both massages, then he massaged her. We laid with her between us again and enjoyed some cuddle time exploring her body and her exploring ours. I got out her favorite vibrator and we used it to make her cum. She decided to bend over and have me fuck her from behind while she gave him a blowjob. I was pretty excited by then so I think I only lasted maybe 5 or 6 minutes. I pulled out and came on her ass and a few seconds later he came in her mouth. It was a great night. We drove home afterwards just kind of looking at each other with goofy smiles on our faces. My wife is an amazing lady and I’m thankful every day that I get to share my life with her. There’s nothing we can’t accomplish together.