So my husband and I have been roleplaying and discussing things for awhile good bit now and really enjoying our play solo. I’ve also dabbled in chatting / rp with a few people and we’ve enjoyed that as well.

One of our biggest hesitations to this lifestyle is discretion, for several personal reasons. That said, from the start I’ve been open with him that I’d be much more into the idea if we were traveling around people we didn’t know.

This next weekend we are going to Mexico. We have decided that for the weekend we will consider ourselves in a Hotwife relationship and I’ll be able to flirt with guys and we will see where things will go. Honestly, I’m happy just keeping it at some fun flirting while out, dancing, etc but we have the option to move beyond that if things are connecting.

With all that said, here are some things we’ve done to make it a fun trip and cover all the conversation / scenarios that could occur.

1. Outfits - we discussed it’ll be fun to push my comfortability a bit on the trip so I did purchase cheekier / sexier suits and have some dresses that will show off more than I’m used to but still not be outlandish. Also have a lingerie set for hubby and maybe others just in case.

2. Discuss / RP scenarios at length: the last month we have role played several scenarios of me flirting with guys at a bar or the beach. And talked through how that might go and played out if we wanted to progress things what we’d be comfortable with. Things like our place versus there. How we both want us both to be there, after care, next day etc

3. Sex prep - again we aren’t necessarily trying to make this happen unless it works out but want to plan for the scenarios. Bought condoms in different sizes and lube to bring.

We are both super excited for the trip but nervous at the same time. We’ve had some amazing sex just talking about the different scenarios. Even though I don’t expect anything sexually to happen, we both agree that just having some fun pushing our limits in public and flirting would be really exciting for us.

Please let us know if you have any other tips, considerations, etc for us!