It was about two months ago that my wife's old lover returned. Things have changed quickly, it went from the odd date to him finding a place near by. They now considered him to be her boyfriend and earlier this week she confessed that they feel they are in love. She sees him almost every day and stays at his place more than once a week. She is there right now. To make things more complicated I have reunited with the woman I was interested in before my marriage. We have lived in this lifestyle for over 10 years and with only a few small exceptions it has gone well. Now I fear my marriage is at risk and only a little while ago it would not have even seemed possible.