Recently I've been a lot more open with my girlfriend about my fantasies, to the point where I told her I'm fine with her talking to anyone as long as I also know and even to check out an app to possibly find people. The thing is these conversations mostly get the most in depth while we are apart for work.

Over text the separation is easy to be more open as face to face it can feel awkward for me (even though she gives me no reason to be) but that said I have no issues bringing it up in bed our dirty talk typically involves talking about her with other guys.

I suppose what I'm asking is aside from just bringing it up out of the blue, what are some openers you guys think would be good to use to talk more about it and feel more comfortable treating it as a normal thing to talk about? I know booze can help but even then I think anything I say just may feel too forward