My wife and I are a young couple (F26 M29), but we've been together for a long time ( 8 years). I've been her only sexual partner, so she wants to take it step by step and not rush things. She wants to feel ready before fucking another man. We started to wonder about the lifestyle as a way spice up our sex life, and enjoy life a little more. We were taking it step by step, looking for our ideal comfort zone, enjoying the process.

Some time ago, she met a guy at the gym. They would only do small talk, so after a couple of days, she figured that he's married and lives nearby. They started to hit on each other in a friendly way. I asked her if she thinks he would be a good bull, and she agreed. She started to try to hit on him on a more direct way, but also asking about his wife, because we knew he was married, but he was still hitting on my girl, so we just wanted to make sure about his situtation and not just help him cheat. Last week they changed numbers and started texting. That's were things started to move faster. She told him about out situation, and he told her that he and his wife were swingers a few years ago, but his wife wasn't into it anymore, but he's allowed to play by himself sometimes, following some rules they set. We both got excited. It seemed like a perfect oportunity.

It's worth mentioning that he's around 12 years older than her, so this was a special turn on for her. Fast forward a few days and he offered to pay for a hotel room for us to spend the night, and he would drop by for a few hours. The idea was to get to know each other, without pressure, in a relaxed setting. We arrived at the hotel and settled in, a few hours later, he arrived. He brought her flowers and brought a bottle of wine. This was a very nice gesture. We opened the bottle and the fun started.

Eventually, they were sat next to each other and he immediatly started to touch my wife's legs. He started sharing some experiences and some tips and recomendations, he knew he was our first time. He looked at me and said that if at any moment I wasn't comfortable, to speak up, and told the same to her. He looked so confident and he knew what he was doing. He started to undress her, worshiping her ass and telling her he was dying to eat her ass since they met at the gym. He put her on doggy and started eating her ass, in a way I had never eaten it before. I would lick her ass sometimes, but not like he was doing it. He was french kissing her asshole. They hadn't even kissed, but now he was eating her ass. After that, everything happened so fast, and a few minutes later, she was the one eating her cock. He asked her if she wanted to fuck that night, she replied that oral sex was okay for that evening. They switched positions and now he was eating her pussy. It was so hot that I took my cock out and started to masturbate while watching. After she came like two or three times, she wanted to return the favor, so she started blowing him again. She took a pause and then they started kissing while she jerked him. At this point I came all over myself. It was so hot watching her like this. They lasted a while like this, she kept giving him a handjob while they kissed...

When he was about to cum, he told her to get on doggy and he cumshotted her ass. We all started to laugh and talk about how hot that was and finish the wine. We thanked him for the evening and for the experience and for the room. My wife and I then made love for hours before falling asleep. We are aware of how lucky we are to find a nice and respectful bull who understands the lifestyle. It was a great first experience and we're still talking about it. We want to take some time before doing it again, but we think it would be safe to pick this guy again.

Would love to hear opinions of experienced people. Do you often repeat partners? How to keep a safe distance? Thanks for reading.