My partner and I are dipping our toes into the lifestyle and have discussed the ins and outs so to speak. Interestingly we both have similar fantasies about each other so both understand each other's feelings on the subject.

Recently, while playing, we both got very turned on by the idea of one of my old, trusted and detatched, friends visiting for a weekend.

The idea of my lady being empowered and getting sex whenever she requested was really hot to both of us. Where she has full control and can enjoy her sexuality.

I have some friends in mind but unsure of their relationship status and such currently. We talked about it seems that this sort of scenario would be much more to her liking. I guess that I trust the guy and I do the legwork. I think that's understandable.

Has anyone done similar in the past? Is there a way you would approach said friend? Or just invite them for a weekend?

It's an exciting shift for both of us.

Thanks