I wanted to share the first time we ever made our hotwifing fantasy reality. This was probably around 2010 maybe?
I’m a trucker and was out of town, one night she told me that she was bored. I suggested that she go out for drinks with one of her gf’s, “maybe you’ll find a bf?” I said, she laughed but then agreed. They end up going to this country bar, and I didn't hear anything from her for a few hours. It was driving me crazy but I resisted the urge to call or text her. Finally she calls all drunk and says “are you sure you’re ok with this?” I said yeah definitely! She slurring her words said, we met these two guys, Travis and Ryan and they are fuckin HOT! I assure her that I’m cool with it, but honestly inside I was scared, nervous, and freakin out, but at the same time extremely turned on! I can hear the bar noise in the backround the hootin and hollaring. So we hang up (its probably like 11pm) I didn’t sleep a wink, my mind racing…1 am, 2, 3 passes on the clock. Finally her gf calls me at 5 am, tells me that they just got home and my wifes in the tub and she's scared to talk to me, afraid Im mad at her. I call her and at the time shes pretty vague with the details, but I find our later...
She made out with Ryan in the backseat of the car when they left the bar, she made out with him and got fingered on the couch in front of everyone else at a house party they ended up at, her and Ryan jumped a pool fence at the apartment complex they ended up at and skinny dipping. At one point Ryan had her in the bathroom, making out and blowing him, while Travis kept banging on the door trying to get involved. The four of them ended up fucking, sucking and swapping in the same room together.

Unfortunately this was before cell phone cameras were EVERYWHERE, or I would’ve probably ended up with some vids and pics, Then again, for her sake maybe it was a good thing?
At the time I was overcome with insecurity, jealousy, and a little mad. Fortunately I kept those feelings in check though. I confided in a buddy and told him everything and how I was feeling, he told me “dude, she only did what you wanted her to, its just sex relax” thats exactly what I needed to hear! I instantly felt better.

When I got back home, we had the best sex EVER, still to this day, it was the best fuck we ever have had. It drives me crazy (in a good way) hearing the details, imagining in my mind the atmosphere, picturing her being a slut in front of everyone at the party, thinking about how all the other chics at that party must have been appalled seeing seeing this slut on the couch getting fingered.

A funny twist to this whole experience, at the time our daughter was probably 15 or 16 and we signed her up on our cities hockey program. My wife takes her to hockey one day, and there is Travis from that night! and he’s the coach! My wife was completely embarrassed and not sure if he saw her or not, so she avoided any more hockey pickups/drop-offs lol

So to this day, I would prefer her going out, and doing whatever and hearing about it later, or getting pics or vids. It has also evolved into me having a cheating fetish, It would turn me on to find a steamy text conversation with someone else, exchanging pics etc.
Just curious if anyone else feels this way too? Loves the, not being there and involved over being an active participant?
Her and my sex life has dwindled and died for over 10 years now, but when I recall this memory it still gets me right where I need to be! I wish so bad that she was still adventurous like then. I’ve tried to get her back into it and she’s not interested. When we do have sex, maybe once every 3-4 months? we talk about it and she seems to get right into it, but realistically, she is probably just playing along just to get me off. DM’s are open if anyone M/F wants to chat about it? This is 1000% true and BTW Travis or Ryan on the off chance you see this, I would especially love to talk to you, I’m sure it was a night with a permanent spot in your brains! It definitely is in mine!