This is a girlfriend story several years before my current partnership. But it gave me an introduction into this hotwife kink before I even had a name for it.

My girlfriend was out of town visiting friends. They were out one night dancing and drinking. We checked in and she was having a good time but sounded like she was hesitant to relax. She was the only one with a boyfriend and some of her friends were kinda judgy. She admitted some guys were hovering and buying them drinks.

I encouraged her to dance with them and flirt. This surprised her. For me it was the first time I encouraged what I often thought about. She was acting coy but I could tell she was somewhat interested. Eventually she agreed to care less about what her friends thought.

Later she called again. One guy was very into her and she apologized for leading him on. I joked about her having a hall pass which led into a bit more discussion. She didn't take me serious until I repeatedly suggested she should make out with this guy. It was getting late. She didn't agree but also accepted that I was serious and that I wouldn't be mad if she did kiss him. I couldn't fully explain that not only wouldn't I be mad, but that I was totally turned on by the thought of her hooking up.

An hour later she checked in again and admitted they were grinding on the dance floor and made out in a hallway. I was out of my mind and had to admit this was something more than just a dream. She sounded less guilty and more giddy. Most of the judgy friends had left. Her one remaining long term friend was encouraging. She even asked about my hall pass comment which implied she was actually interested. Her kissing him was hot and I wanted to see if she would go home with this guy. Apparently he already invited her. She wanted me to convince her so that she didn't need to ask. So I told her to go home with him. She kept asking me for guidance so I told her to get felt up in the uber. She did it and slept with him.

Here is the part that made me discover the overall hotwife kink. She didn't want to go home to her friend after and have to explain us. So I agreed to drive into the city and pick her up after she slept with him. I was all nerves the entire drive thinking of what was happening. I picked her up at his apartment and watched them kiss good bye. She wanted assurance that I still wanted her but was clearly beaming from being fucked. She got me off on the drive home as we both enjoyed talking about the details and her experience. I never felt anything but joy and to this day still love this dynamic even though we are no longer together. What a great a beginning.