My wife had hee first solo date last night with a guy she had been talking to for about 4 months. We had originally planned for me to be present and watch or participate but our three schedules never matched up. So when he was free last night my wife and I agreed for her to see him alone. I was on my way home from out of town and there was a possibility that I might walk in on the action and watch or possibly join in. When I arrived they were saying their goodbyes at the front door.Which, I can imagine was quite awkward for him meeting me after he just finished fucking my wife. He has no lifestyle experience. Now we have had 3 experiences each one exploring a different dynamic. The first where I watched her play, a mfm, and now a solo date. Of all 3 I have to say the solo date was my least favorite of the three. We discussed this morning where we would rank each one. I said 1. The MFM 2. Watching 3. Solo date Her ranking was 1. MFM 2. Solo date 3. Me watching. Of course we enjoyed all three for different reasons. I just feel that the solo date was less about "us" than the other two. We both love the mfm because it's the most exciting for the both of us. She enjoyed the solo because she thinks it allowed the third to be comfortable and more himself. Curious of others preferences and how they rank each experience and why.