Anyone ever felt completely turned off by the other guy ?

Last night, my husband set me up with a guy. He was present the entire time, but idk this guy didn’t please me at all. Like I put on a show for my husband bc he enjoys it. But he was just blah. He was my height and I didn’t find him attractive. Also he has lasted longer than the other guys I’ve met and the whole time I was just waiting for him to be done. I felt like when I was in college; waiting for a guy to cum so I could leave lol. I told my husband I’m done to try this again before the year ends but with someone who is big (and I’m not talking dick size) but I was just left feeling gross. Has any hot wives experienced this?