Been exploring this HW thing for a number of weeks now, totally supportive from my husband. I’ve been “seeing” a man for a bit, we went on a few dates and plenty of make out, petting and even oral sex sessions.

But this weekend was the first time we had sex. We spent the night in a hotel room and despite being insanely nervous, it was a really positive experience.

I did wake up in the middle of the night really anxious about it all, the guilt really kicked in. He was really empathetic and wonderful about it which even led us into another round of sex before falling back to sleep.

Came home and hubby loved hearing every minute of it which at first was a bit uncomfortable but I was really surprised how into it he was — not just from a sexual perspective that he’ll benefit from but an encouraging he’s so happy to see me happy take.

Anyways, just thought I’d share. 🤷‍♀️