Long time reader, and I appreciate this community and coming here to share my(our) story and ask for advice.

About 10 months ago, I (40) shared with my wife (43) about my hotwife fantasy. She listened & said it’s a hot fantasy but she isn’t sure it will be as good in real life. She also shared that she has an orgy fantasy but wasn’t ready to share the details yet. We also had heart to heart conversation where I assured her of my love (we already have a great relationship) and it’s not a trap or my way of trying to sleep with other women, etc. She expressed familiar concerns, what if she falls for someone, she is not sure I can have just casual sex, if it is cheating etc.

Since that conversation, I have been taking it slow, never pushing her beyond what she is ready for. But I always remind her about the fantasy and things that would be hot to try. She listens, but reserved to show a reaction.

However, I slowly introduced hotwife fantasy into the bedroom via dirty talk. First time I did she got so turned on that climbed on me to ride (which she rarely does) and was super wet. The other day - she wanted me to watch her play with her vibrator. While watching her, I played with her nipples and put my thumb into her mouth while she was using her vibrator and started telling her how hot she looks and it would be so sexy to watch her sucking a cock while another one fucks her. That got her over the board and she orgasmed in 15 seconds which almost never happens. It also was a strong orgasm. It was soo soo hot. I gave her aftercare telling her how sexy and hot it was. She agreed but I could sense she got a bit reserved after-orgasm-mind-clarity.

Another progress was where she told me about celebrities she would fuck if opportunity presented itself (and if I was ok) and agreed to point out to men she finds hot when we are out.

So there are good signs and progress but also she is having moments where she seems to get shy about enjoying the fantasy.

So my question is what other things I can do and try to help her to let loose and explore more. I love her very much and she is hot hot hot and I would love for her to have lots of sexual fun.

Sorry for the long post. Thank you for reading and your thoughts.