The closest thing we have done to her having sex with another guy was me telling her to just fuck somebody. She only got some guy to rub her pussy.

She had on a minidress I think you call it that really looks like a shirt that barely covered her ass. She unintentionally flashed several guys her pussy just bending over slightly and she didn't have panties on. I think it's sexy because it's slutty but not overly so. It's like a hippie looking thing.

I keep going back and forth on the fantasy of her fucking other guys but I want to experiment more with having her go out dressed slutty. And I think going out and shopping for things she looked sexy in would be good for us unlike some other things so far. I have a couple of questions.

• Do you think it's a good idea if I'm not really sure I want her fucking other guys? Have any of you done this and left it at that?

• What are good ideas for clothing? I want more of whatever I'm describing above but also cold weather clothes which may be more difficult. I was thinking short sweater dresses.

• What about lingerie? Do you have any ways to use it outside of the bedroom? She doesn't have any and I was thinking about getting this too. If so what is your favorite? I like garters and stockings but besides that I want something where she's exposed if she has panties. She would wear anything I wanted, but I feel like if it's overtly slutty looking she won't be comfortable. I want lingerie for the bedroom too though.

For the last one maybe women's advice is better if any read this.