My wife really wants to be in the lifestyle. We had one MFM experience which was the culmination of moving pretty slow over a year with the same guy. He’s actually a mutual friend of ours who got divorced. She always thought he was cute and on night he kissed her. It progressed to make outs, then “hand play”, to oral, to then a full blown session where I was involved for the first time. He live far away so it’s not able to be a ‘regular’ thing.

From what she has communicated to me is that she loves having threesomes and wants to try swinging. But “doesn’t know what to do, what to say, or how to overall get involved in the search process”. She’s nervous and isn’t a big internet user, she doesn’t have her own Reddit and she’s open to apps, but doesn’t want them on her phone. She’s afraid to give out her phone number.

I don’t know really what to do or where to go from here? Any advice from women who are or were in a similar situation?