My wife & I are very, very new to anything related to this lifestyle, and we've been slowly warming ourselves up to the possibilities.

Wife met a guy at the bar a couple weeks ago, she flirted with him while hanging out with him and another couple there with him. Then they went back to the couple's place for some hot tub time, but other than stripping to underwear, nothing happened that night (he's very much a gentleman it turns out).

She went on a 1:1 date with him last weekend, but not much to get excited for other than an end-of-night kiss (like I said, gentleman). Through this point, she hadn't wanted to freak him out, so he still did not know she was married.

Two nights ago, he texted her mentioning that he has a morning ritual of sitting in his hot tub before dawn, and invited her over. We talked about it given she'd be alone at his house in the middle of the night essentially, and she ended up accepting yesterday morning, and drove over. When he answered the door, he was wearing nothing but a towel (including underneath), and she took the hint and dropped the bikini she had worn over. They got in the hot tub, and after some light touching & play, she ended up telling him everything. After a minute of being very taken aback and reassured that I knew she was there and approved, he cuddled back up to her and things heated up in earnest from there, her pleasuring him first with her hand and then her mouth, and him fingering her, leaving her craving a long, hard rod inside her. That was the furthest my wife and I had agreed to go when I'm not involved, while everything would be in play when I am. In the end, he ended up agreeing to be our third in the bedroom now and then!

When she got home, she recounted every last detail of the outing to me, and we had some of the most intense sex we've ever had, and couldn't stop grinning at each other the entire rest of the day!

Such a heart-racing first step, and was happy to find I had no second-thoughts or undue jealousy in the end. Can't wait to explore more of what this lifestyle has to offer!