Wife and I have been openly talking about jumping into the Hotwife lifestyle. She recently opened up about her fantasy. See my previous posts for more details. This guy was seriously hung 10” and thick. We were talking about celebrity crushes and somehow turned into the “hall pass” convo.

She told me that her deep fantasy is to have this past lover fuck her with senseless while I watch. He is still near us and lives in a near by city. I’m curious how others have jumped in and what types of rules have you put in place to ensure there is discretion and secrecy.

My wife is also very worried that she is going to crave and be addicted to his massive cock and won’t enjoy our time together. I’m not small by any means but I’m also not 10” with the girth if a coke can

Looking for honest feedback.