What originally got me thinking about sharing my wife was how wet she got after watching porn. It was awkward and we both just watched the whole thing but when I slid my fingers in her I couldn't believe how wet she was. More than I could remember her being and it made me jealous and also aroused. I've posted about this in other places about being bothered by it and the women try to say I'm reading too much into it but it makes sense that women will be more excited by a new dick. It's biology.

Our actual experiences involving other guys wasn't as good because I was making her do things she wasn't comfortable with. I didn't want to be around and wanted her to just hurry up and fuck somebody so I knew how I felt but I never was there to witness even something as innocent as flirting or kissing. I wish I had because I know she would have been soaked. One scenario I fantasized about, is she will put on a show when we argue around other guys which normally makes me see red. But if we had company around say something about her being a slut and wanting to fuck the guy. Then when she tried to deny it make her show us how wet she was and both end up fucking her. I might do something like that if I was drinking and somehow became aroused during the argument. The thought of her being like she was after the porn and not being able to hide how much of a slut she is is a huge turn on. I'm not really pursuing this now though and overall the experimenting wasn't good for our relationship in the long term even if it improved sex temporarily.

What is your experience with though? Have you had anything where you could notice a difference? Is this a strange thing to focus on? Does it make you jealous at all or do you just see it as a benefit to you no matter who got her like that?