Not that long ago, I was getting down on myself after not having the greatest luck with finding guys. They would either express interest and then ghost or would meet up, it seemed like everything was going great, they said they were super into me, then just dropped me or ghosted. Even if you know it’s not you, there’s a little voice of doubt saying maybe it is. So, I made a post asking if I was the problem. The majority of comments said that that’s just the nature of the beast. It happens quite a bit with hotwifing. All of the reassuring comments made me feel better but there was one response in particular that ended up making me feel much much better.

A guy messaged me about how he sympathized with my search for “reliable, drama free fun.” He expressed his interest in talking with me and if nothing else just to help each other with tips and strategies in this swamp that is the internet. We started chatting and found out we vibed well together. Very well. After spending some time talking, we decided to meet in person and see just how compatible we are. But this wasn’t just any meet up. During one of our conversations, sharing fantasies, he proposed an alternative way to meet up.

He texts me “You could be waiting for me in the hotel room. Laying naked on the bed. I walk in. You watch me disrobe. I climb on top of you and kiss you. We have seen each other for minutes and we are naked on the bed. Whatever happens, happens. Maybe I won't let you speak until I'm inside you. That way, the first time you speak to me I have already been inside you. You could then say you have fucked someone before you said a word to them. Talk about an intense meeting 🥵”

This is exactly what we did.