If I knew how she was gonna change when we got into this I would of told her to fuck other guys 20 years ago. I m43 her f39 have been together since she was 18 and married for 16 years now. Over a year ago I stumbled into the hot wife stuff and told my wife I thought it would be hot. Obviously my idea was met with some significant reluctance but after a year of consistent fantasy and role play she got on board with the idea. Once we started looking for potential suitors and she started to chat with guys the change in her personality was quite dramatic. Apparently no matter how many times I tell her I think she's hot it doesn't have the same effect as a stranger and that has a tremendous effect on a woman's confidence. We're only 3 months into this and have had only one physical encounter but everything so far has been for the best. She's working out taking better care of herself. Her wardrobe has changed much more revealing confident clothing. Just the way she walks exude sexual appeal that she never had before. For sexual appetite has gone off the charts even when she was 18 we only ever had sex maybe three times four times a week now it is every night if not more often. She initiates sex now which she's never done before. Dirty sexual text from her throughout the day. I understand that this lifestyle is not for everyone and we aren't without our struggles mostly my self-confidence in certain situations but our communication has been better than ever. I feel like I'm rambling

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