New Hotwife here! So far I’ve had one in person experience with our established third. It’s was an incredible experience. My husband was there with us and watched, which was honestly my favorite part. The sex with our third literally blew my mind but the sex with my husband afterwards was the real prize in all of this. We’ve been on each other like teenagers over all of this since. lol Tomorrow I’m meeting our third for a solo date. This will be my second time playing with him and our first time playing solo. We do want to explore solo play together and it’s also difficult to line up three peoples schedules with two young children, so I’m sure solo time may just make more sense for us here and there.

My question here is, do any other wives want or need some sort of after care from their third guy? Or do you just rely on your husband for that?

When we had our first experience I did rely on my husband for aftercare and didn’t quite receive any from our third, and I was okay with that. But going into tomorrow, knowing my husband won’t be there after we are finished with our solo time. I’m tempted to ask, or discuss some after care with our third. Nothing crazy but just a bit of cuddling maybe, kiss me goodbye, etc. I don’t want him to just get dressed and immediately head out the door. Which is kind of how the first experience went when my husband was there.

So I just wanted to ask, is it appropriate to ask my third for some aftercare? Do others do that with their thirds? And how much?