About two years ago my husband brought up this fantasy. From lurking here I found out what it was all about. As we explored and communicated with each other, we knew we were ready. I felt more comfortable with someone I knew but was not in our daily life.

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After a handful of "holds" and a few reschedules, I had sex last night with someone other than my husband for the first time since we got together. Anxiety was through the roof. Maybe some fumbling around a bit at first. Eventually, we were able to enjoy ourselves.

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The best part, coming home and talking about it with my husband. It was so great being supported and going through all the details. We had some fun of our own later on.