Coming soon - Get a detailed view of why an account is flagged as spam!
view details

This post has been de-listed

It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.

9
Not sure what to do!
Post Flair (click to view more posts with a particular flair)
Post Body

Short story: I saw my neighbor on a swinger website and not sure what to do.

Long story: My husband and I have a couples profile on a swingers website and I have a solo Hotwife profile, which my husband encouraged. Yesterday, I saw that a guy had looked at my solo profile, so I looked at his. My pictures are all edited so that you wouldnā€™t be able to identify me. I have no identifying tattoos or birthmarks. None of my pictures have unique clothing or show my house. So, the likelihood of him knowing it was me is extremely slim. His pictures obscure his face but in one pic, I noticed his jacket and shoes, both fairly unique. (Itā€™s definitely my neighbor). His profile is solo. The text does say he has permission from his wife to explore. I am fairly good friends with his wife. We are all friends and we go out together quite a bit. He IS very attractive and I would be lying if I hadnā€™t thought about it. But those thoughts, which I expressed to my husband, are only thoughts.

Soā€¦ what do I do? Do I reach out to him? Her? Do I leave it alone and act as if I didnā€™t see it? I agree with my husband, who says, ā€œDonā€™t shit where you eat.ā€ Thatā€™s definitely not the issue. The issue is how to move forward with this knowledge?

Duplicate Posts
3 posts with the exact same title by 2 other authors
View Details
Author
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
8,020
Link Karma
1,821
Comment Karma
6,192
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 2 months ago

Subreddit

Post Details

We try to extract some basic information from the post title. This is not always successful or accurate, please use your best judgement and compare these values to the post title and body for confirmation.
Posted
1 year ago