Hey so I started my plunge into the lifestyle about a year ago. So for starters, I’m a bull in college and the first couple I ever played with is the one I am still playing with. They are great and everything I could have asked for. Pretty available, husband is chill, I can almost not keep up with the wife in sex even tho she is 10 years older, and it’s a good dynamic. We are basically friends at this point which I would’ve never imagined. I know we all got lucky but none of us have been able to find someone else for long term. Many times our schedules don’t align.

Personally I have found luck in 4 other couples but they haven’t panned out to being long term things due to factors like distance, jealousy, and just them only looking for one time things. On their side, the quality of bulls is horrendous in our area apparently according them. So many just simply do not show up.

So, what should I be saying on Reddit when looking for long term hotwives? I have been told to look outside of Reddit, them as well, but the lifestyle websites don’t look super appealing to me.