My wife (43) and I (44) have been enjoying others for two years. We mostly play with third men. By and large, it’s been great. We’ve met great people, the wife has had amazing orgasms, and I’ve loved every minute.

We like when the man finishes inside the wife. We are fastidious about testing, and have been with trusted people, so feel very safe going no condom.

We’ve noticed that several men struggle to finish. And at least three have “faked.” They would make a big to-do thrusting into the wife, but then there would be no cum inside.

After the most recent incident, my wife started to question her skills…her ego is bruised.

Questions: To the hotwives, has this happened to you? Have men struggled to finish with you and how does it make you feel? Any suggestions? One idea was younger men; the best cream pie we’ve seen was with a late 20s.

To the thirds, have you faked it?