Hey everyone. Hubby and I have a trip to Cozumel coming up in a month and have been discussion ways to explore this fantasy we’ve been discussing and roleplaying, now that we will finally be away from home solo.

One of our major hang ups is anonymity that makes things like going to a bar and flirting locally even very nerve racking. After some discussion we’ve kind of settled on the below. I’d love some feedback if this seems reasonable. Key note, our focus is not to make the trip about the lifestyle, but to just weave it into our existing plans.

First, we’ve discussed that on the trip we will go in with it being ok for me to be outwardly in the lifestyle if I want to. Meaning, I don’t need to feel bad flirting or chatting with men etc. we aren’t hiding anything and if people were to ask we would say we have an open relationship. That said, there is zero expectation that anything beyond flirting will happen. We are totally content just having a relaxing weekend and maybe have a flirty conversation at a beach bar for example.

Guidelines: we will have ample discussions ahead of time to align on all sorts of things that could come up if something organically moved further than flirting. I feel this is a must, even if it’s highly unlikely, to ensure if something comes up we’ve discussed it before. Hubby is aligned but would love advice on any specific situations we should think about.

That said, we both are aligning on a safe word that can be used at any time to let each other know things have gone too far or we are uncomfortable

Are we overthinking things? Again I highly doubt anything happens as we won’t be seeking out adult resorts or anything per se but we are going in with an open mind to see where things go which is exciting enough for us. We did agree that I would push my boundaries a bit and dress a little sexier than normal while there but beyond that it’s more just the possibility that something could happen.