A few weekends ago my wife went out and we thought it would be fun to bring a third back with us. We consider ourselves swingers and have had some great experiences in the past but things have always developed in a club or online first. We did see one or two guys that might have been alone and were checking her out but honestly we chickened out and didn’t want to approach and come off weird and we also realized that men won’t approach her because I’m there. Anyone have any luck with picking up a third randomly and if so was it worth it? Another fear we have is that we pick up a third and they can’t preform since it might be their first time in this kind of situation.
It’s rather hard especially with our schedules. Although we havnt had too much trouble finding, nonetheless, it is a bit of a challenge to find the guy that might also be attractive and she can also find that vibe.
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Thanks for all the advice and sharing your stories, we have a lot to think about 😊
A play partner and I have had the same fantasy. W'eve concluded that meeting guys in the wild who are clean, sane and comfortable with the dynamic is too hard. We meet guys online, vet them and then set up meetings irl.
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We are a year deep, and live this exact way. And same approach. You are exactly correct on the fact people need to realize, you will not be present everytime.