Love and lust, are two different things. One can feel the love for one and lust for another. From the very beginning of my married life my husband and I have differentiated the sexual attachment and the emotional attachment. I am sexually attracted to his best friend, who is a tall, handsome and strong man and I was honest about this to my husband. And he understood that it is normal to feel attracted to someone else. Nor did this attraction in anyway lessened the love and respect I had for my husband.

My dear husband made my wish come true and got his friend and me together and we both are sexually active. I get my share of love from my husband and I return that love and affection back to him. Same way, I get my lust and sexual needs satisfied by his friend and I return thr same favour to him. Basically, my loyalty still lays with my husband and if ask me to stop one day, I will stop. No doubt about it.

Understanding and communication is the key in such relationships and I am completely honest to my husband about everything in this matter and in my general life as well. It is my duty to keep my husband stress free and affirm my love and loyalty to him. Feel free to engage in conversations. Thank you for reading.

One question that I got the most in here is that who is better in sex. Tricky question actually. If I have to talk strictly about physical pleasure then it's the friend and that's why I am still active with him. But if I have to say physical pleasure along with emotional satisfaction and the "feeling good" emotion... it is with my husband. And both men are aware of this.