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Advice for messaging couples(mock sample)
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I’m just this type of person in everything I do I want to be great at it and when it comes to messaging couples to see if they are interested in a third I want to make sure I am not the reason if I don’t get a message back. I know there could be a ton of reasons why I don’t sometimes get some back, but this is focused mostly on post in subreddits asking for black guys specifically. Here I will provide a mock example of me messaging a couple and I want feedback on what I can improve on or add :). Also a note is in a normal message I will show my face. In the mock sample it’s blurred Thanks in advance

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This is so sweet haha. I have no notes or suggestions, and you look great, i would reply!

It’s not necessary but if you wanted to, you could compliment what you like about them, although that’s tricky considering it’s likely sexual and it’s easy to come off too strong. So I’d stay a bit vague with that. Just some thoughts :)

Basic but shows that you’re normal and can put a sentence together. We would probably reply but it wouldn’t “stand out” to us. I think adding a little bit about why you reached out -“what you said in your ad xyz resonated with me” or something physical but complimentary isn’t an issue in this scenario either. Also adding a little bit about who you are or what/why you like this dynamic. Most of that can be cut and pasted except for the “why you reached out” part so it shouldn’t be to difficult to play the numbers game, while personalizing that small part.

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